Paying my sister?

My sister takes care of our parents 5 days a week. She is there about 6-8 hours per day. She thinks that “somebody” should be paying her. I think that she should do it for free – after all it is our parents that she is caring for. What do you think?

Jack

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My Dad’s Will

My Dad just told me that he has updated his Will. To me, that means he has changed something, but he will not tell what he has done. I have asked him many times to tell me. Why won’t he tell me?

Gloria

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Jodie’s Story: Birthday Blues

Next week is my 65th birthday. Sixty-five was the age at which my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease.

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Talking to Mom about her last wishes

My mother’s health is getting worse, and I suspect she’s nearing the end of her life. I want to talk to her about her last wishes, but it’s awkward to broach the subject. Help!

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Paul’s Story: The joy of children’s laughter

Paul Miller is a big strong man who lost a leg in World War II. He is a war veteran, but is jolly and has a soft spot for his grandchildren.

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Helping Mom with every day things

Lately, my mother is having trouble coping with everyday things, like her housekeeping and grooming. She also seems overwhelmed. How can I help her?

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Dad’s Next Home?

My brother and I are starting to think that it is time to have Dad move to a seniors place.

Do you have any suggestions for us, ideas of costs, what to think about and even how to begin?

Mike

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Annie’s Story: Coming out of her shell

A resident at The Village of Erin Meadows has made a significant improvement since coming to long- term care a few years ago. Annie arrived at the home as a quiet woman who kept to herself and didn’t participate in any of the activities.

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Caregiver stress: how do I cope?

My husband’s dementia is getting worse, and it’s becoming more difficult to care for him by myself. My friends offer to help but I don’t want to burden them with my responsibility. I don’t know how much more I can handle. What should I do?

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Sandor’s Story

Fresh air, great food and brisk walks around the promenade deck! I was recently diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes, but that didn’t stop my wife, Megan, and I from taking a seven- day Alaskan cruise.

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