Fighting at the Funeral
My father-in-law has just died and the planning for the funeral is well underway. There is alot of tension between my sister-in-law and me that right now. Going to the funeral will only make things worse between us. I am sure we will get into a fight. Do I have to go to the funeral?
Lyn
Who’s on Your Team?
Let’s face it: many elderly people usually have several complex medical conditions. So how can a busy family physician take care of all of a senior’s many issues during a typical 15-minute office visit? And, what are the chances of doctor’s advice being understood, retained and implemented by a senior after he or she leaves the office?
Should I be concerned about Dad’s use of his scooter?
Dad rides his scooter everywhere and has stopped walking. Should I be concerned?
Productive Doctor Appointments
My Dad has asked me to attend all of his medical appointments. He has had a stroke, his mind is still sharp but his body is not. There are many questions that I would like to ask the doctor, but feel very uncomfortable asking them, with my Dad in the room. Do you have any suggestions?
Thanks
Mike
How to Visit a Parent in Long-Term Care
When someone we love is admitted to long-term care (LTC), our initial visits to see them can be very stressful, even before and after the actual visit. To help make these visits go more smoothly for everyone involved, here are a few helpful tips.
Meet Norm McNamara
As each hour passes day by day,
Sometimes struggling what to say,
Fog and clouds inside my head,
Cannot speak what should be said,
Frustration reigns and tempers flare
Feel so alone with no one there,
Family friends are all around,
Yet in my head, deafening sounds,
Sounds of loneliness’ and despair,
Sometimes all too much too bear,
Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease
Mom has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) and is overweight. She has started refusing to leave the house. What could be wrong?
Stay Safe in the Bathroom
Every year, close to 180,000 Canadian adults over age 65 fall and injure themselves. Many of these falls occur in the bathroom. It’s easy to see why. With smooth tiles and a little bit of water, bathrooms can quickly create a slippery situation.
Joining nursing home exercise class
The exercise class at my mom’s nursing home is for staff and residents. Could I ask to join so that I can participate with my mom?