Arranging Help
My aunt is in a wheelchair and lives alone on a farm. She’s very independent, but she’s getting older and I’d feel much better if she had someone to help her. What can I arrange?
Should I be concerned about Dad’s use of his scooter?
Dad rides his scooter everywhere and has stopped walking. Should I be concerned?
Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease
Mom has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) and is overweight. She has started refusing to leave the house. What could be wrong?
Joining nursing home exercise class
The exercise class at my mom’s nursing home is for staff and residents. Could I ask to join so that I can participate with my mom?
New Caregiver and Mom
Mom became very attached to her caregiver, who recently resigned. Now she’s despondent and won’t acknowledge the new person. What can I do?
Dressing Dad
My dad wants our homecare worker to help him put on a shirt and tie every day. Mom says he’s overdressed. What’s your advice?
Attractive clothes and personal items for Mom
Where can I find attractive clothes and personal items for mom that are easy for her to use? She has arthritis, so dressing and grooming are difficult.
How do I tell families about the importance of visits?
I am a nurse who finds it sad when families don’t visit their loved ones. Is there anything I can do to let them know how important their visits are?
Memory and Visits
Grandma has forgotten my name and who I am. If I don’t visit, I feel guilty. But is it really worthwhile for me to be there?